Fijne Feestdagen!
It is a huge statement to say that we are writing this from our home in The Netherlands. This past year has been a rollercoaster ride of emotions, challenges, and learning opportunities as we’ve transitioned from our lovely rural house and acreage in Spokane to a small recently renovated city flat in The Hague. As you can imagine, differences abound, and we’ve needed much support navigating such a big life change. This decision was not made lightly and we are incredibly grateful to everyone who has helped us embrace this adventure.



2025 began with making homemade quill pens and cattail paper on Clear Lake, skiing and snowshoeing on Mount Spokane (big shout out to Uncle Charlie who joined us on a weeknight), and visiting friends in California for horseback riding, canyoning, and spell casting at Harry Potter World. In early Spring Patrick successfully built, launched, and recovered a 6’ Estes rocket, gaining his official large engine certification. Laurie and friends tried flyfishing, mosaic making, wax painting, and electric scootering along the Spokane River. Fiona was proud of her school class performance “U.S. Geography”, which involved alien scouts singing about the merits of each U.S. region.





In April we organized our own scouting trip to The Hague over Spring Break to look at neighborhoods and schools for our relocation. We especially enjoyed strolling through the gorgeous tulip gardens of The Keukenhof while eating fries with mayo, learning about the porcelain-making process in Delft, and getting a bicycle tour of Rotterdam. Upon returning to the states we realized that we had several projects to address in a relatively short timeframe, so we borrowed a mini excavator to get our place ready for the renter we had lined up. We cheered on Jack and Ellen as they earned their Master Beekeeper Certifications, and Laurie started ballroom dance lessons at an Arthur Murray studio near Fiona’s school.




Over Mother’s Day weekend Fiona hosted a survival-themed farewell party for her friends on Jack and Ellen’s back property with her former survival instructor at the helm. The kids made their own communal shelter called “Kids Island” and had a riot cutting down small trees, orienteering using line of sight and a compass, foraging for food, and starting a large bonfire. We helped Laurie’s dad celebrate a milestone birthday, after he fixed up all our bikes, with a tour down the Route of The Hiawatha on opening day, stopping in a tunnel to blow out a candle. We also got a lesson in silver mining in Wallace, Idaho together, and enjoyed the Saint George’s School living wax museum, where Fiona represented famous American Civil War nurse, Clara Barton.









Our last full month in Washington was a challenging balance of farewell activities and project management, with touring Bay View and Farragut State Park, making Mexican mole sauces at The Kitchen Engine, painting D&D characters in the home studio, and watching sprint boat races in Saint John as happy distractions. We were incredibly touched by the fantastic send off meal from our friends, The Johnsons, who made many of our favorite dishes from the past 10 years.











July 4th we had a joyful time out on Clear Lake in the boat with The Reinemer Family and Charlie Miller visiting from Washington’s westside. July 13th we said a tearful “goodbye for now” to Clear Lake and spent the night before our flight swimming in Jack and Ellen’s heated pool with a large inflatable dodo and popping open the last bottle of champagne from our wedding together. The rest of July was spent with Laurie’s family and friends, with a week in Ohio taking in the Columbus Zoo, exploring OtherWorld, and watching ‘Hook’ on The Kline’s outdoor movie screen, followed by a lively cabal of watersports, blueberry picking, museuming and games along Michigan’s beautiful shores with extended family. Several last minute issues presented themselves leading up to our departure to The Netherlands including finding a new renter and getting government paperwork apostilled. We spent our last morning in The U.S. prepping our ballots and redistributing our luggage to meet various airline parameters using a baggage scale ferried to us via jet ski.













Up to this point preparing to leave had been one of the more challenging things we’ve done, but navigating the paperwork and uncertainty was just beginning upon landing in The Netherlands. We spent August and September in small one bedroom business travel apartments, which encouraged us to adventure around The Hague when we weren’t completely drained from adjusting to the time zone or figuring out how to do basic things in a new country. We especially enjoyed seeing Strandbeests in action along the North Sea, teaching Fiona to ride a bike, finding “The Girl with the Pearl Earring”, splurging on a Matcha themed High Tea, climbing the Grote Kerk tower, oogling large sailing ships coming into Amsterdam’s port for the SAIL festival, making splatter paint art, and cruising Rotterdam harbor while eating pancakes.







Fiona began year 4 (grade 3) at The International School of the Hague in early September which required a challenging daily bike commute from The World Forum. I was racking in about 14 km a day and showering after each roundtrip. Thankfully, Patrick had a few work conferences he could walk to from that apartment. It was very conveniently located next to a photography museum, art museum, and science center, so when Patrick was occupied, Fiona and I had no lack of nearby entertainment. Fiona joined an after school painting club, had a survival-themed field trip with her new classmates (she’s the only American) and excitedly selected a lofted bed from IKEA. It was quite auspicious that we were able to find a flat close to the school and with the help of a generous loan from Laurie’s dad we were able to win the competitive bid to purchase it without contingencies! We were more than ready to sign the paperwork and move in by early October.




Now our 5-minute bike commute from Pisuissestraat 67 seems like a luxury and we are quite enjoying the ability to walk most places we need to go on a daily basis. There is an impressive park and garden center a few blocks away that will be a nice dry oasis during the wet seasons here. Patrick and I spent our 15th anniversary flying kites on the beach with Fiona. The backyard we are so lucky to have, was quite overgrown and the only way to get the trimmings to the road was through the main corridor of our house, which proved quite a messy endeavor. Fiona and Patrick have joined a DnD campaign group which aside from them is composed completely of local college students, and Fiona’s Halloween costume this year was also DnD themed (her favorite character from the series Critical Role). With The Hague being such an international city, there were several options for trick-or-treating locally, but it was especially entertaining to see Fiona get on the tram dressed as a purple demon.


For Fiona’s 9th birthday we helped furnish her new bedroom and took her to see Cirque du Soleil Kurios. With the school-affiliated community center nearby we’ve been able to participate in a variety of classes and meet many parents from around the world. However a fellow American family invited us over for Thanksgiving this year and we kept all of you close at heart as we celebrated. Patrick and I volunteer together preparing coffee drinks at the school cafe on Monday mornings and have embraced learning about new cultures and celebrations. Sinterklaas comes on December 5th via boat from Spain to The Netherlands bearing the majority of the season’s gifts, and then we’ll look forward to some Icelandic traditions with family over Christmas and New Years.




Wishing you all a season of wonder and joy. Sending much love to you and yours for 2026! Let us know if you want to try meeting up someplace in Europe!
Here’s our new address:
Pisuissestraat 67
2553BB Den Haag
The Netherlands
Love, The Millers



























































































